Arranged Marriages

Do you think that it is ok to have arranged marriages? I think that one of the main reasons of why people do it is because they really don’t have a lot of trust foe their kids. One of the benefits would be that if you marry some one and you don’t love him or her then you will soon grow to love him or her. I also believe that there are a lot of benefits and disadvantages to go along with arranged marriages. And one of the disadvantages is that if your child doesn’t seem to love the men or women that you choose for them to marry that is their fault not yours. Because they are not taking the time to get to know him or her in the first place and so it won’t last as long. Because that trust isn’t even there at all.

I think that it’s because my opinion has to be that it is not really worth losing respect from your kids. Not I’d rather let my children go out with any man or lady they want and marry any one of them they want instead of me choosing one for them and forcing them to marry that one person. To me it really messes with them and I know that it has to be really hard because when I was at home and I was dating my parents hated all the ladies that I dated. I really know how they felt in the old days. Now let’s say that you are in a relationship with your children is great I mean way great and then all of a sudden you force them into a relationship that you want them to be in. Guess what happens next? They end up saying they hate your guts and that they wish that they weren’t ever born. How does that make you feel? I can tell you it would make me feel really crappy if that happened to me and my kids.