There are a lot of advantages to arranged marriage. Such as you have that special day is all planned out and how you want it to turn out. It helps you with your plans like what time do you want it and that helps the people to know where it is going to be at. Or it lets you know how many people will be coming to the wedding and how many people will be eating. With the arrangements it will help a lot to keep it in order and how you want it and will give an idea of what it’s going to be like. It shows that you only have so much time to get the things you need to do done. You can get things prepared how you want to have them such as the food, desert, theme, music, and the sight of knowing that you in control.
When there are advantages there is always a disadvantage even if is as small as getting stuck in the rain. There is always that chance that you can get in a big fight before the wedding and cancel the wedding. Or there is that plan of planning for so many people and then ends up that you get more people there than you was expecting, then those people will be stuck with out food. Then if you are coming to the due date of the wedding and you’re not done with every thing it can hurt you because the wedding didn’t turn out how you wanted it to. But there are a lot of disadvantages to this cause you never really know how something like this will turn out.
If some one came up to me and asked me if I would have arranged marriage I would say yes. I think it’s because you have to think of all the disadvantages and the advantages and compare. Because to me overall the advantages will way over the disadvantages of the wedding. Plus I think you should think of the possibility of getting stuck in the rain, having to pay a lot, or not having enough time to do what needs to be done. So overall I would choose the choice to have an arranged marriage because I like to have things planned out.
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Me personally would hate to have an arranged marriage. If you do get an arranged marriage you can't get along with them very well. I believe you should get to know someone, learn to love them, and be able to get along, and also to overcome any challenge thrown at the couple.
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