Fate Do Your Work

“Fate, do your work. We human being don’t control our own destinies. What is fated to happen must happen. So let it happen!” Olivia p. 59

“Fate vs. destiny?” To me I don’t agree with this quote. This is be cause I think a person has all the choice to pick there own destiny. Because by what ever you do in life by choices and physical work you are letting your destiny turn how you want it to. I think that everyone has there own choices in what they do and to me a destiny is related to that.

Don’t get me wrong I do believe that things do happen for there own apparent reason. But that little thing still doesn’t fulfill your destiny. It may change it a little bit and overall I think you as a being have the control of your destiny.

My uncle said “Life is what you decide to make it so make it a good one.” To me that phrase says that we are the ones making the choices and to me if we can make decisions and choice we should be able to make our destinies.

For a good example I decided to go and get into trouble with people and do my own thing and what I wanted to do. And all the time I was out doing bad stuff I was making the choices and to me that isn’t fate it’s a choice I had to make. If you look at all the possibilities maybe it was fate for me to pick out my own destine and I wanted it to be. It’s just how you want to take the phrase in you brain.

For me I think that it was fate for me to pick how I wanted my destiny to turn out. Well that’s what I think about that phrase or quote. I know that choice ties into your destiny big time because of what I have done to make my future.

High and Drive, Don't Mix

At about 1:30 pm that is where it all started. I slide out of bed, nudging my cousin to wake up. Then I headed out side, grabbed the truck keys off the dashboard, slid the keys slowly into the ignition and started the truck to warm in the frosty winter. I hopped out of the truck and creped my way into the house and got ready.

“Hurry up lets go.” I said. Bolting out the door hopped in the truck. A minute later my cousin stormed out the door and hopped into the truck. We backed out of the parking lot and found the credit card. So, we can head off to the store & made it there.

We jumped out of the still running truck to not lose the heat that already built up. We walked into the store to see what we could find. “Go get the drinks and candy.” I said. “I will get the two Chicken Combos and the chips.” We start off to the front to pay for the food & then headed out to the still warmed truck.

We turned around instantly and headed towards the back roads, rattled over the rail road tracks & drove four or five blocks than slammed on the breaks. We grabbed the pipe and the half bag. Then we sat back and we started to blaze. Then about 20 min later I was on cloud 19 and didn’t know where the pipe went. “Where is the pipe?” I questioned. Then he said “It’s in your hand you idiot.” I grabbed the pipe with other hand and put it away. Then we started to eat like a rich family on Thanks Giving.

So we decided to leave when we finished eating. We drove to this trailer court down the street from my cousin’s house. At the trailer court they have this huge empty area in the middle of the trailer court. We decided to drive around and do some sliding around in the middle of it. My cousin and I kept sliding around until me and my cousin decided to head back to the house.

When I got home, & found out that my uncle knew I took is vehicle that now reeked of bud. That’s when I knew that I was caught getting high. That taught me not to get high and drive. Even if it’s in a town near home.

Anything Worse than Dying?

There are a lot of different minds on this subject but really it depends on the person. With some people would rather die. Other people think that dying is the worst thing out there. To me it can go either way. It really depends on what type of situation you are in at the time.

Here are some examples. Well to me I think that living can be worse than dying. Because lets say that you are really connected to your family and you love them more than the world. Just imagine if your whole family died in a plane crash on there way to a family reunion. To me of course the kid doesn’t want to live ever again because all he loved is pretty much gone.

But there are other situations like that. I think that people mainly don’t want to live in that situation because they are afraid and don’t know how to approach life. It is because there family is gone they do not know what to do there scared to live life on there own. It would be hard.

This is hard for me to decide on whether dying is worse or not. But me I am more with the dying. Because I think it would be worse to die because even if you are in a really bad situation there is still a lot to live for. Like if your family died you can always make your own family and it doesn’t have to be a horrible life. You just need to hope back up on that horse and make it do what you want to do.

All I am trying to say is that there is so much more that is worth living for. I know how people feel when they are in that bad situation and they don’t like it. The thing is how ever bad someone’s life is that should make there life all bad especially when you don’t know how the future is going to be like.

Arranged Marriages

There are a lot of advantages to arranged marriage. Such as you have that special day is all planned out and how you want it to turn out. It helps you with your plans like what time do you want it and that helps the people to know where it is going to be at. Or it lets you know how many people will be coming to the wedding and how many people will be eating. With the arrangements it will help a lot to keep it in order and how you want it and will give an idea of what it’s going to be like. It shows that you only have so much time to get the things you need to do done. You can get things prepared how you want to have them such as the food, desert, theme, music, and the sight of knowing that you in control.

When there are advantages there is always a disadvantage even if is as small as getting stuck in the rain. There is always that chance that you can get in a big fight before the wedding and cancel the wedding. Or there is that plan of planning for so many people and then ends up that you get more people there than you was expecting, then those people will be stuck with out food. Then if you are coming to the due date of the wedding and you’re not done with every thing it can hurt you because the wedding didn’t turn out how you wanted it to. But there are a lot of disadvantages to this cause you never really know how something like this will turn out.

If some one came up to me and asked me if I would have arranged marriage I would say yes. I think it’s because you have to think of all the disadvantages and the advantages and compare. Because to me overall the advantages will way over the disadvantages of the wedding. Plus I think you should think of the possibility of getting stuck in the rain, having to pay a lot, or not having enough time to do what needs to be done. So overall I would choose the choice to have an arranged marriage because I like to have things planned out.

Abortion

Abortion? Well I don’t think any woman should have an abortion. Just because you should to think about the kid because I think every baby deserves to have a life. For example if a girl gets rapped I don’t think any baby shouldn’t get a life because the girl got rapped .Because it’s not like the baby was the one rapping the girl and I don’t think any one should take any ones life. Let’s say that you didn’t get raped and you were the one to choose to have sex and now that you’re pregnant you want to have an abortion. Personally to me I don’t think that give you a reason to take a child’s life. If you are willing too take the risk of getting pregnant you should have a problem keeping the baby when you are pregnant.

To me a lot of people but not all think it is unfair that they are having a harder life because they are pregnant. Sometimes it’s hard for people to realize that they had the choice to have sex and to me that’s kind of choosing if you want to have a baby. So now that some of you life has been taken cause of getting pregnant or raped. Does that mean you take a life? By thinking by when you got raped you should take another child’s life does it make it right. It’s like that saying two wrongs don’t make a right.

Cant being rapped or just being pregnant give you the motivation to give your kid the life that you didn’t get cause of getting pregnant?

Actions or Words

So the question is are words or actions more powerful. Personally I think both of those as equal because it can work in both areas. It just depends on what type of setting you are in. Because if you have a person that actually will listen it makes it easier to persuade that person when you have someone that will listen. I would have to say it depends on what kind of setting you are in. Because when you compare they both have equal power it all about the setting you are in and what is happening. For example when your trying to get someone to not get high it takes words cause if you try to use actions either you take from him/or her they will get mad or they will go and get more. Then when you use actions is when someone dies because you can’t just say sorry cause that just isn’t enough you probably should give them a hug and show them how much you really care.